Abbie Stutzer, housekeeper, pet caregiver, and death doula
I studied peace and conflict studies and political science (undergraduate, 2005), and journalism (master's program, 2008) at the University of Kansas. I've worked as an independent freelance writer and editor for various print and online publications.
In 2017, I began exploring the death care industry. I started as a student in mortuary school. I quickly discovered that my interest in dying and death was more about helping the living prepare for death rather than performing procedures to a body after death.
In spring 2018, I enrolled in Quality of Life Care's death doula program. What I'm learning and have learned will allow me to fully serve people and pets before, during, and after death. I completed my coursework in November 2018.
A lot of caregiving and death doula work is about just *being* there; helping around the home, talking to families, caring for pets. I apply this caring philosophy to how I clean homes, too. Everyone, young and old, sometimes need a little help around the house.
I use my practical experience in varying ways.
For people: I've provided respite care for my mother and father during my mother's parents' physical and mental declines, and deaths. I volunteer for a local hospice and provide respite and bedside vigil care.
For pets: I've seen the passing of multiple family pets through the years; I've helped care for various pet illnesses and age-related issues. Currently, I care for one senior pet of my own, and two spry "middle-aged" pets (cats and dogs). I work in animal care and have worked as a dog walker, pet sitter. I also cared for the body of my recently deceased senior dog. I had a home funeral to honor her.
General help and housekeeping: I’ve worked for two small house cleaning companies and use eco-friendly products at each job. I can provide a reference. In general, I enjoy cleaning spaces. It’s calming work, and I love seeing clients smile after I’m done.
I continue to study death and dying-related topics, as well as pet care, and caregiving issues. I also am always looking for new volunteer opportunities, conferences, and classes to expand my knowledge. I will update this page with that information, my new experiences, as I have them.
To find out more about me, how I think, and to hear "my voice," explore Gather the Leaves' blog, Reap the Harvest.
I look forward to working with you and the journey we're about to embark on.